Age Appropriate Chores

by Dr Craig

A Child Age 2 - 3 Can:

• Help make the bed
• Pick up toys and books
• Take laundry to laundry room
• Help feed pets
• Help wipe up messes
• Dust with an old sock on their hands

Notes about this age:

• Excited to help
• Needs complete supervision
• Needs help laying the groundwork

A Child Age 4 - 5 Can:

• Clear and set the table
• Dust
• Help prepare food (example: add ingredients, stir)
• Carry in groceries and put some away

Notes about this age:

• No constant supervision needed
• Feels independent

Children Ages 6 - 8 Can:

• Be responsible for a pet
• Vacuum and mop
• Take out trash and replace bag
• Fold and put away laundry

Notes about this age:

• Feels very independent
• Not as excited to help you

Children Ages 9 - 12 Can:

• Help wash the car
• Wash dishes
• Help prepare simple meals
• Clean the bathroom
• Rake leaves and shovel snow
• Operate the washer or dryer

Notes about this age:

• Crave continuity
• Need well defined consequences
• Need to feel they have input

Children Ages 13 - 17 Can:

• Replace light bulbs and vacuum bags
• Laundry
• Wash windows
• Clean out refrigerator and other appliances
• Prepare meals
• Prepare grocery list
• Driving teens can do the grocery shopping

Notes about this age:

• Need consideration for their time
• Manage their expectations
• Appreciate affirmation
• Need to hear they’re capable

Remember that every child is unique. Some children just may not be at a certain point by a certain age. These are just generalizations.